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Because your own biases are self-evident. Incidentally, you might want to answer TEF there. He cited one of your own posts to back up what he says.
I'd also say the fact that you're still trying to argue with almost everybody on this forum right now is proof that you're not nearly as tolerant or unbiased as you claim to be.
Because their evident isn't proof. You have to point out and explain how I'm biased like I did with you.
And almost everybody on this forum(that's talking, rather)is christian, conservative, or very close to one of the two on the forum. How many arguments have you gotten into online? Nearly all of them are pretty one sided, because people don't like to get involved for fear of loosing friends, etc. It's extrmely common to find arguments like this.
So should I give in because the majority is against me? Does that make me biased just because I think differently?
Logic does not follow.
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Last time I checked, there was a huge difference between reading the Bible with your kids and putting them on the rack. Last time I checked, there was a huge difference between taking your kids to Sunday School and burning them at the stake. I don't know. Maybe it's just me, but I think your term "force your beliefs" is just blowing smoke.
But just becuase you aren't beating them for not going to church doesn't mean you're not forcing it on them.
What would you do if they turned around and told you they didn't want to be a christian?
Heck, would they even do that? YOu may not react to it badly, but why would they presume that if you've shown them nothing but christianity from Day 1? You're creating a world for them where !=Christian = bad, which makes it extremely uncomfortable for them if they disagree with your teachings. They'll never want to tell the truth, unless they have a rebellious streak.
You need to let them know that you would love them no matter what, otherwise, yes, you are being forecful with your beliefs.
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Ooh, making kids do something uncomfortable for them. Almost like making them go to school to get educated,
I honestly can't believe you brought that up. Looking at it from a hypothetical point of view without any religious bias, going to school to get educated is extremely important for them to live a full and happy life.
While you may believe Christianity may be just as valuable, there is still no evidence to suggest it's *near* as important as a good school education. I understand it's your point of view that they'll burn in hell if they don't, but you have to understand that because of the fact that there are other points of views out there, you are inherently no more right, therefore no religion in particular should be seen as a "Neccessity".
or making them clean their room,
Logical behaviour as a parent.
or do chores around the house.
Logical behaviour as a parent.
Or not buying them every little toy they whine for.
Logical behaviour as a parent.
However, throwing them into a world they may feel uncomfortable in or learn to hate is NOT logical behaviour. If they decide one day to become interested in christianity, then feel free to raise them as a chrisitan. Otherwise, I firmly believe you have no right to use your children as a vessel for your beliefs.
I think you're afraid that Christianity would die out if it wasn't for it being instilled in people. Well, if it would, it wouldn't be a very valid religion, then, would it? And I seriously doubt that would happen. People are always looking for a path to follow, and always come to different conclusions. The way it
should be. Do you even know how little sense raising someone as a christian makes? Beliefs are something very personal and close to the soul, and should entirely be the choice of the person. Even if they're young and believe in silly things, let them. Let them grow.
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"Sound reasoning" indeed.
You've listed various things that parents make their kids do that are of value and use, yet failed to link them in any manner as to how instilling your religion in them is productive.
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It is sound reasoning if and only if you advocate never making children do anything, or never restricting their behavior in any way.
So you're not only raising them into christianity, you're using it to restrict their behaviour? Now you ARE most definitely getting into forceful territory.
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In the end, you still have presented no sound reason why religion should be treated any different than other things children are expected to learn in childhood.
Because religion is personal and something you should find searching for yourself. A belief is the most personal thing you can have.
School, cleaning up around the house, those things are life skills that almost everyone partakes in, and not something that is close to someone's heart, or define who they are.
There is no more sound reasoning than that.
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Wrong. Everyone's arguments are going to be biased to their beliefs. You are saying his are more biased because of what his beliefs are. The only difference here is, he believes in the Bible, and you believe in something else. But you are just as biased to your beliefs as he is to his.
He's doing something because he read it in a book, I'm doing it by using logic to extend things which are globally considered right and wrong.
People can be more biased than others in certain issues, it's entirely possible. You'll just have to live with it, I'm afraid.
"My book says so" isn't a valid argument, as it has no backing that everyone can relate to, regardless of belief. It's entirely self contained and recursive, thus my "trying to fly by pulling up your feet" analogy.