Off-topic: I do get annoyed when people mix up characters and actors, intentionally or not. He's "Michael Richards", not "Kramer". It's bad enough when actors are typecast by studios; we don't need audiences doing it too.
On-topic: Here's an idea about racism that I don't think has been mentioned. I think it's possible to be "subconsciously" racist, but not "consciously" racist. Let me explain what I mean: suppose there were such a person. On an intellectual level, he doesn't believe in racism; he thinks all people are equal. He doesn't say racist things, he condemns racism, he avoids people who are racists. But things get uglier on the "gut" level, in ways that are difficult to describe. He's not revolted or anything, but, say, the dreaded "N" word might cross his mind, but he doesn't want it to.
Unfortunately, one of my best friends -- and worst enemies -- is such a person. Me.
I have no idea why. I hardly had any concept of racism at all until middle school. In elementary school, I saw skin color for what it is: just another random physical attribute like height, hair color, whatever. While I was taught not to discriminate based on race, I don't think I'd have ever done that anyway. I didn't see a reason to.
Well, I had gone to a good elementary school, but I went to a bad middle school. I had to deal with more thugs there. It was around that time I started noticing more racial division. Black people act differently than white people do. I don't think that has to do with genetics, that they're born in such a way that they act differently. They see other black people acting in certain ways and they decide to be like them. When I reached high school, I was immersed in ghetto culture. I had to listen to hip hop every day on the bus. I had to listen to my classmates calling each other a certain epithet every other word. I tried to accept and even embrace this culture. I couldn't. It's just not me.
I think my current behavior (I say "behavior" although it's much more of an internal thing) is something of a reaction to my rejection of the ghetto culture. I'd liken it to when I was a Christian and then I wasn't anymore, and instead I quickly became a staunch atheist -- as a reaction to my rejection of Christianity. There was a period where almost just the mention of Jesus would annoy me. I grew out of that, and I expect I'll grow out of this, too. I know that racism is a more serious thing than that, I'm just explaining that I think there's something similar going on in my mind.
I think another thing is that I don't interact with black people very often. I don't have any black friends in real life right now, because I'm somewhat antisocial and I don't really have
any friends in real life right now. I think if I had some social interaction going there, my little subconscious racism thing would probably just fade away. After all, if I saw for myself every day that black people are really just ordinary people, it'd be hard to think otherwise.
Anyway, you know what I usually do when I see a black person? I smile. If I'm in a generally sour mood, I might not (who smiles in a sour mood?), but I try to smile. The smile serves three purposes: one, most people like to see a smile. Two, I think it might provide a positive message, that white people and black people don't have to hate each other. Three, it reminds myself of that positive message as well. I try to make a sincere smile, not a fake smile that I put on only for show. It's difficult to do a truly fake smile anyway (at least if you're not doing a really exaggerated and sarcastic smile). Ever try it? You might end up intending a fake smile and discovering a second later that maybe you're more sincere than you thought.
I hope that people don't think less of me because I admit to all this. Again, I think I'm really not racist. I have racist thoughts sometimes, but they're not thoughts I can really control right now. And even so, I don't assume the worst when I meet a black person; I don't think that they'll try to steal something, or anything like that. But if I were in Michael Richards' position, and I thought I was being heckled and I became enraged and just totally lost my self-control, might I say what he said? Sadly, it's possible. Again, I don't think that's OK, but I can understand it.
I wish more people would spend some time thinking about these sorts of things, trying to understand behavior, instead of just taking one look and saying "He's definitely a racist, I'll never watch his stuff ever again." No, he shouldn't have behaved that way, but we all do things we're not proud of... um, I don't really know how to conclude this post, so I'm just going to stop it here...
Best wishes to all people of all races,
Kef