Jitka wrote:
...I suppose it's possible that furry-ness is some sort of genetic thing. I get the feeling it's a deep-seated mental issue...
Furries often have very similar psychological quirks, usually relating to a need for social and physical closeness that isn't being fulfilled, usually for self esteem reasons. The animal identification allows us to act like it's not the same us that's getting close to others as the us that is afraid of getting close, so basically we have to trick ourselves to allow ourselves to connect deeply with others. It's not genetic, but it's not really a choice either, since everyone needs to get those deep connections somehow. (Also not saying all furries are necessarily like that, but pretty much every one that I've got to know seems to fit, including myself)
sci-fi greg wrote:
Actually, I have a theory that everyone is bi, but some people...[subconsciously] ignore one side. But that's just so controversial that I'm not even going to argue it.
Actually, that's a very popular alternative theory in anthropological circles: People are bi by default at a certain level, but are pushed one way or another along a sliding scale by genetic and experience factors, with most genes and society set up to push toward heterosexuality. I've found it true for me, when I can actually be honest with myself. My dreams, for instance, are 50/50 male/female when they're sexual. I'm very attracted to women physically, but find the personality type that attracts me almost exclusively among men (and lesbians

). Given a choice between female body and terrible-matching personality and great personality and male body, I go for the personality. Hence, I have a boyfriend now, and I'm extremely happy

TheFacelessEvil wrote:
Beyond the Grave wrote:
As for your question TFE, the reason why homosexuality has been condemned for centuries is because it is outside the perceived norms of society.
But why is it perceived that way? It is an act found in nature. Is it purely reproduction paranoia, you think? Like, we don't have enough populace therefore we need to frantically breed and therefore homosexuality should be stifled?I'm a fan of the societal concern for reproduction theory. With harsher conditions back then than now, they really had to pop out the babies just to maintain a steady population. They didn't even have to have been thinking about that when they came up with these rules (it could have been the fear of difference that generated them), but the societies that for one reason or another had these rules were the ones that produced more children and thus won out over other social possibilities in the harsh environment.