Kevin DuBrow wrote:
Didymus wrote:
And by the way, were you been? Long time no see.
Around.
Anyway, that's just what I was taught. I know that baptism is a good thing to do whenever you first get saved, but if you aren't baptised, it doesn't mean that you aren't going to heaven.
Kevin, the church I was raised in likewise taught me that Baptism was a mere ritual that accomplished nothing. However, that teaching does not align with what the Scriptures actually say about the Sacrament. Take a look at those passages I cited, and I think you'll see what I mean (and that's only a sampling - there's actually quite a bit more). It's also one of the many reasons I left that church and became a Lutheran. I wanted to be among people who say what the Scriptures say on the subject.
While I will concur that under extreme circumstances - for example, in the case of that thief on the cross - then God does not require it. But under normal circumstances, the command is to be baptized, and the promises are connected with Baptism. So while it MIGHT be possible for a person to enter God's kingdom without Baptism, I cannot imagine why a Christian would want to rob themselves of the assurance of God's promises connected with the Sacrament.
Wesstarrunner said earlier in this thread that he is deliberately refraining from being baptized. That is willful disobedience to God's command, and I cannot consider a person living in willful disobedience to God's command a fellow Christian, despite what their confession of faith may be. A doctrine that says that Baptism is only an "outward sign" actually encourages that kind of disobedience.
Iki:
I cannot offer you any clear answer to your dilemma. On one hand, I wouldn't want you to miss out on the promises that accompany Baptism, but on the other hand, from what you're saying, you have no desire to be a member of God's family. That being the case, I can only suggest that you do what you feel is right for yourself. After all, Baptism apart from faith in Christ still brings condemnation (Mark 16:16), so at least you'll have some personal integrity if you do what you feel is right (even if it is ultimately wrong - because it would be less wrong that doing what others expect for the wrong reasons). In other words, if you are going to be baptized, to it for yourself, not everyone else.
But let me give you something to think about: why is it that you feel you do not wish to be a Christian? Is it the particular church your family belongs to, or is it the Christian faith in general? Do you think these might be something worth investigating?