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Your main arguement here is about "forcing" your kids into different mindsets. But kids are their parents responsibility.
The word you are apparently looking for is "property".
Responsibility is another thing entirely. That means that it's your responsibility to raise them as best you can, which forcing your beliefs on them goes against, as that's raising them best
how you would like them, and is irrepsonsible.
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Is it wrong for a parent to desire their children to not grow up to be terrorist or gangster? (extreme examples)
What, so if you don't bring your kids up as a Christian, they'll grow up to be terrorist or gansters!?(in extreme cases).
Wow. I had no idea that Christianity had the inbuilt ability over any other religion on the face of the planet to prevent that.
I don't mind extreme examples in cases where it's an acceptable though unlikely possibility(as the one I made in the Death Row topic) if they're along the same lines.
Those examples are not along the same lines and are extremely offensive to non-christians.
Teaching them to be good people and teaching them to be Christian are two different things, but you can't really "teach" someone to be good, either way.
How kids turn out is down to a number of factors and the best thing to do is just be as respectful of them as possible without spoiling them too much.
I have no problem with parents pointing out the obvious rights and wrongs, and it would be insane not to. But forcing an ENTIRE RELIGION on them from an early age(though a simplified version, it st
Not only that, if you teach them moral values only matter because "God" says they're wrong, if they turn out to be atheist, then they may no longer have reason to uphold those moral values.
If you taught them right and wrong
abstract from religion, that would cover them in all cases. But you refuse to becuase you're so damn possessive of your religion.
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Some parents wish their kids to live life to its fullest.
No, the "some" in this case wish their kids to be moulded to match themselves.
Truth and lies are different.
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arents are normally smarter than kids when it comes to decisions about marriage and morals.
Hold on -
marriage? I hope you're not implying it's a good idea for parents to teach their kids that gay marriage is bad.
That IS plain out instilled discrimination and I WILL have your arse on a plate for it.
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The kids think they know everything and that their parents are wrong,
As opposed to the parents thinking they know everything and acting acting on that thought in a forecful manner.
Wisdom comes with age, but so unfortunately does arrogance.
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but good parental guidence is an important part of a healthy society that is disappearing because of people like you.
Because of people like me? Excuse me? Go shove your 1920s fundie conservatism up your arse.
I'm sorry, no doubt you'll jump on me, but if you dare compare blaming society's problems on someone to telling them to shove, you can shove it, too.
It was much better back then when you could be racist and there was no such thing as gay people, eh? Because we all know there was no crime back then and everything was perfect.
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As parental guidence is falling, gangs and mobs and stuff like that are rising.
What this has to do with forcing religion is absolutely beyond me. As I pointed out earlier, if morals were taught on an unbalanced platform and not attirubuted to a God, there is absolutely no logical reason why this would not be more effective if they decide to reject christianity or whatever else they were taught.
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And you say that parents shouldn't be forcing their beliefs on their kids, but the fact is is that if they don't, the rest of world will.
And that makes it right?
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Public schools across America constantly force unproven theories such as evolution into kids minds, teaching it as proven fact and giving them no alternative to think about.
Oh gods, you're against evolution. This really IS Fundie hell hole of the month.
I don't think you realise what most scientific theories are. Theories are "very almost facts". What Didymus pushes as fact or theories would actually be called "postulates" in a scientific sense.
Only when you have a working model backed with evidence that works in the current scientific system do you have a "theory".
Creationism is not a "theory" as there is no direct evidence backing it. It is a postulate based on some semi-reasonable ideas, and nobdoy's going to tell you otherwise, but it is completely invalid to use it as a scientific argument.
Evoltuon is a near proven theory, religion is unproven jabbering.
Deal. The Smeg. With it.
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If schools can force unproven knowledge into the children, shouldn't parents be able to as well? Whose care is it best to leave a child in? The government or the parent? Either one will force. It's the way it is.
Quite frankly, I wouldn't trust the American government to raise a child very well, but I still doubt very much that many to most upbringings are anything but unintelligent parents "going with the norm", so it's not really as different as you think.
The problem with
In the earlier days of the internet, most forums were hosted on sites like EZboard. They were all apart of one big site on the same servers.
But people wanted more freedom to make their own rules, and work their boards the way they wanted.
This resulted in lots of needless, selfish rules being instated and most boards have at least one or two power tripper mods on boards as people make more and more a deal of "It's my board, I pay for this/put this up, I can mess you over how I want".
The internet has decayed severely as adminstrators have become more power hungry, encouraging people to rebel and care less and take them less seriously, which is pretty bad as the internet has ALSO been decaying because it is becoming more main stream.
Leave it up to one person, and they'll make a big huff of their "right" and probably end up abusing it. It's completely unmoderated. But if you were to have a stable, reasonable moderation on certain things; like if you had good educational TV, or an improved education system that helped raise the kids, it would be infinitely better than leaving Billy Bigot pass on all his ideals to his children.
I do believe very much in freedom and personal choice, obviously, as this is what this argument is about. However, when a third party is involved, such as a children, it gets more complicated.
That's why modern society holds laws that hurt other people in high regard, and laws that only apply to one's person in the long run, or between two consenting adults, in low regard.
It's how you deal with other people. We already have laws limiting what you can do, just not all the right ones.
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Even if you drop a young kid on a deserted island, should he survive, the jungle will force its ways onto him and he will grow into an animal-like being, behaving just like the jungle animals to survive.
Err...
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Kids are going to have many ideas forced onto them.
Well yeah, if they didn't we wouldn't be having this argument now? I don't see how "Well other people do it too" is a solid point...
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I have Christian parents who have raised me, yet I have many other ideas to choose from and know about. I am exposed to them every time I leave my house or go online. I am not a slave to my parents, I am choosing my path now.
Well, you know what they say, if you're successfully brainwashed, you should never know that you were brainwashed.
But, on a more serious note, for every Joshua there is, there's at least two of my friend whose parents still force him to go to church when he comes home from college.